
一名爱尔兰政界人士呼吁“讲点常识”,此前一项政府支持的宣传活动敦促祖父母在拥抱孙辈前先征得同意。
An Irish politician has called for “a bit of common sense” after a government-supported campaign urged grandparents to seek consent before hugging their grandkids.
该25秒公益广告由组织“We-Consent”(我们同意)发布——该组织是都柏林强奸危机中心的一个项目,并获得政府机构支持——视频郑重宣称:“并非每个人都想要拥抱。即使来自爱他们的人。”“尴尬?也许。重要?绝对重要。”该活动补充道。
Released by the group We-Consent — a project of the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre which is supported by government agencies — the 25-second public service announcement boldly declares: “Not everyone wants a hug. Even from the people who love them.”“Awkward? Maybe. Important? Absolutely,” the campaign adds.
视频画面显示,一名孙辈开心地拥抱祖父母,而另一名孙辈在祖父母凑近想拥抱时显得不自在。
The video features one grandchild happily hugging their grandparents, while another appears uncomfortable as her grandparents lean in for an embrace.
针对该活动,爱尔兰议员加文·佩珀(Gavin Pepper)猛烈抨击“政府和非政府组织”“丧失理智”。“当然,应该教导孩子关于界限的知识,任何人都不应被强迫进行他们不想要的身体接触,”这位愤怒的政客在Facebook上连同视频广告写道。“但我们也需要一点常识。”
In response to the campaign, Irish Councillor Gavin Pepper slammed both the “Government and [non-governmental organizations]” for “losing the run of ourselves.”“Of course children should be taught about boundaries and nobody should ever be forced into physical contact they don’t want,” the fired-up pol wrote on Facebook alongside the video ad. “But we also need a bit of common sense.”
佩珀将“祖父母与孙辈的关系”描述为“爱尔兰家庭生活中最重要的纽带之一”,指出“充满爱意的祖父母的一个拥抱,不应被呈现为某种奇怪或可疑的事情。”
Pepper described the “relationship between grandparents and grandkids” as “one of the most important bonds in Irish family life,” noting that “a hug from a loving grandparent should not be presented as something strange or suspicious.”
这位愤怒的政客抨击政府“不断谈论改变传统”,并辩称“总会有一个时刻,人们有权说:别动某些东西。”“爱尔兰文化、家庭和传统很重要,”他说。
The outraged politician slammed the government for “talking constantly about changing traditions” and argued “there comes a point where people are entitled to say: leave some things alone” “Irish culture, family and traditions matter,” he said.
佩珀重申要教导孩子界限和尊重——但恳请“也把一点常识带回对话中来。”We-Consent——获得爱尔兰司法部和儿童、残疾与平等部支持——将自己描述为一项长期的国家级项目,旨在向社会所有成员提供信息、教育并引导他们了解同意的概念。
Pepper doubled down on teaching children boundaries and respect — but begged to “bring some common sense back into the conversation as well.”We-Consent — supported by Ireland’s Department of Justice and Department of Children, Disability and Equality — describes itself as a long-term national program that aims to inform, educate and engage with all members of our society about consent.
这段视频在社交媒体上迅速传播,引发了网友们的各种反应(如“这到底是什么鬼?”、“这真的可信吗?”等),但该视频并未出现在 We-Consent 的任何在线平台上。目前尚不清楚该组织是什么时候、以及是否真的从自己的网站上删除了这段视频的。
The , which has gone viral on social media, garnering mixed reactions such as “what the f–k” and “how is this real?, does not appear on any of We-Consent’s online platforms. It is unclear when or if the organization removed the video from their pages.
一位社交媒体用户写道:“政府必须对此负责。这简直太荒谬了!”
“The government needs to answer for this. It’s bonkers,” one social media user wrote.
另一位用户则批评道:“很抱歉,但这真的太荒唐了!纳税人的钱不该被用来做这种事情……接下来还会出现什么?难道还会发起一场‘不是每个人都想被提供一杯茶’的宣传活动吗?”
“I’m sorry, but this just seems absolutely ridiculous. This is not how taxpayers’ money should be spent. What next? A campaign to tell us that not everyone wants to be offered a cup of tea?,” another slammed.
还有一位用户表示:“这是我很长时间以来见过最令人难过、也最愤怒的事情了。祖孙关系本是最珍贵的关系之一……这种广告到底是怎么被审核通过的?”
“This is actually both the saddest and most enraging thing I have seen for a long time. I mean WTAF? One of the most precious relationships is grandparents and grandchildren. HOW did this get signed off?,” said another.
然而,爱尔兰议员洛林·霍尔(Lorraine Hall)在 X(TikTok 的前身)上为这项广告辩护,称她对那些将广告内容理解为字面意思的人感到“尴尬”:“我为那些认为这只是一个字面意思、而忽略了广告创意存在的人感到遗憾……”她还说:“没错,广告确实有效。”
However, Irish Councillor Lorraine Hall defended the campaign on X, writing she’s “embarrassed” for anyone who took the ad literally instead of as a “figurative message.”“Embarrassed for all the people that think that this is a literal rather than a figurative message…and have forgotten that advertising creativity is a thing,” the pol wrote.
We-Consent 与都柏林强奸危机中心(Dublin Rape Crisis Center)并未立即回复《The Post》的采访请求。
“Oh yes…and also to state the obvious – advertising does work,” she said. We-Consent and the Dublin Rape Crisis Center did not immediately return The Post’s request for comment.