在一段疏远期后，卡罗琳·达里安表示她和母亲“现在比以往任何时候都更亲密” 仅仅因为你记不起来，并不代表它没发生过。
After period of estrangement, Caroline Darian says she and her mom are 'now, more than ever, together' Just because you can't remember it, doesn't mean it didn't happen.
这就是由卡罗琳·达里安发起、并由其母亲吉赛勒·佩利科参与的、关于药物辅助性虐待（也称为化学控制）的新公众意识宣传活动背后的核心信息。
That's the message behind a new public awareness campaign about drug-facilitated sexual abuse — also known as chemical submission — led by Caroline Darian and featuring her mother, Gisèle Pelicot.
佩利科在丈夫多米尼克·佩利科的审判中放弃匿名权，从而成为全球抵抗精神的象征。多米尼克·佩利科于2024年被判犯有在长达十年的时间里，在位于法国的家中反复给妻子下药并强奸她，并邀请其他男子也这样做。
Pelicot became a global symbol of resistance when she waived her right to anonymity during the trial of her husband, Dominique Pelicot, who was convicted in 2024 of repeatedly drugging and raping her over the course of a decade at their home in France, and inviting other men to do the same.
“药物辅助虐待是一种无声的暴力形式。它真正剥夺了一个人的意识、自由，甚至记忆，”达里安告诉《As It Happens》节目主持人尼尔·克克萨尔。“这项活动的目的，真正是要将无形的事物带到光亮之下，给予无法言说之事以发声的机会，去看见那无形之物。” 该活动于上月在法国启动，由“MendorsPas”（别让我入睡）组织主导，该组织由达里安在审判后创立，旨在提高公众对化学控制的认识，并将受害者与支持服务联系起来。
"Drug-facilitated abuse is a silent form of violence. It really robs a person of consciousness, freedom and even memory," Darian told As It Happens host Nil Kӧksal "The purpose of this campaign was really to bring the invisible to the light and give the voice to the unspeakable, to see the invisible." The campaign, which launched in France last month, was spearheaded by MendorsPas (Don't Put Me To Sleep), an organization Darian founded after the trial to raise awareness about chemical submission and connect victims to support services.
活动展示了化学控制受害者的特写肖像，其中包括一张她母亲的照片。
It features up-close portraits of chemical submission victims, including one of her mother.
每幅肖像都配有一个刻意留白的不完整句子。例如：“多年来，我一直被丈夫____”，或“在我们的纪念日，我被公公____”。代表缺失词汇的横线出现在当事人嘴部上方。
Each portrait features a deliberately incomplete sentence. For example: "For years, I was ____ by my husband," or "On my anniversary, I was ____ by my father-in-law." The line representing the missing word appears over the subject's mouth.
负责制作广告的宣传公司Havas Paris在新闻稿中写道：“词语就在那里，却说不出口。”“这提醒我们，药物辅助性侵犯不限于特定地点或情境，实施者可能就是受害者身边亲近的人。” 据MendorsPas和全美强奸、虐待及乱伦网络（RAINN）统计，约75%的药物辅助性虐待受害者认识施暴者。
"The word is there but cannot be spoken," reads a press release by Havas Paris, the publicity firm behind the ads. "A reminder that drug-facilitated sexual assault is not limited to a specific place or context and can be perpetrated by someone close to the victim." About 75 per cent of victims of drug-facilitated sexual abuse know their perpetrators, according to MendorsPas and the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network.
“可能是朋友，可能是父母，也可能是同事，”达里安说。“这不一定只发生在派对上。大多数时候，它发生在家里，施暴者是你认识的人。”一段疏远期达里安对此问题有着切身之痛。两张照片显示她在卧室里穿着内衣，是从她父亲的电脑中找回的。照片中，她看起来像睡着了或是失去了意识。
"It could be a friend, it could be parents, it could be a colleague," Darian said. "It's not necessarily only happening at parties. Most of the time, it happens at home with someone that you know." A period of estrangement It's an issue Darian knows all too intimately. Two photos, showing her in her bedroom in underwear, were recovered from her father’s computer. In them, she appears asleep or unconscious.
在2025年的回忆录《我再也不会叫他爸爸了》中，她透露自己认为父亲也曾对她实施性虐待。虽然她父亲因未经达里安许可分享其私密影像而被判刑，但他否认了所有其他指控。
In her 2025 memoir, I'll Never Call Him Dad Again, she revealed that she believes her father sexually abused her, too. Though her father was convicted of sharing intimate images of Darian without her permission, he has denied all other allegations.
在宣传这本书时，达里安对《每日电讯报》表示，母亲不信任、不支持她，她永远无法原谅母亲这一点。有一段时间，母女俩处于疏远状态。
While promoting the book, Darian told the Telegraph that her mother didn't believe or support her and that she could never forgive her for that. For a period, the two were estranged.
但达里安说，如今，她和佩利科已成为反对药物辅助性暴力斗争中的盟友。“我们现在比以往任何时候都更团结，”达里安说。
But today, Darian says, she and Pelicot are allies in the fight against drug-faciliated sexual violence. "We are now, more than ever, together," Darian said.
在今年早些时候接受CBC《时事》节目采访时，佩利科表示，她为女儿感到愤怒，并希望女儿能得到答案。
In an interview earlier this year with CBC’s The Current, Pelicot said she was angry on her daughter’s behalf and hoped that she would get answers.
“今天，我们每个人都在尽力疗愈，但我们每个人的感受不同，遭受的痛苦也不同，”她说。“我是说，对孩子们来说，那是他们的爸爸……一切都崩塌了。”佩利科在前夫的审判中放弃了匿名权，已成为性暴力受害者的国际标志性人物。
"Today, each of us is trying to heal as best we can, but we each felt it differently and had different kinds of suffering," she said. "I mean, for the kids, this was their dad … and that all crashed down." Pelicot, who waived her right to anonymity during her then-husband's trial, has become an international figurehead for victims of sexual violence.
周三，母女俩共同出席了在纽约市举行的人权组织“平权现在”晚宴，并因她们的倡导工作共同获得了2026年开拓者奖。
On Wednesday, the mother and daughter appeared together at a gala in New York City for the human rights organization Equality Now and were jointly awarded the 2026 Trailblazer Award for their advocacy.
“对我们来说，这是巨大的一步，”达里安说。“我们真的非常感激。”
It's a huge step for us," Darian said. "We are really grateful."
达里安对简·多伊说：“你不必背负这份耻辱。”达里安表示，她希望这场运动能帮助终结围绕“化学制服”现象的污名化与沉默，鼓励人们寻求帮助，并在可能的情况下进行毒理学检测，以确认自己的怀疑。
Darian to Jane Doe: 'You don't have to bear the shame' Darian says she hopes the campaign will help end the stigma and silence around chemical submission, encourage people to seek help and, when possible, undergo toxicology tests to confirm their suspicions.
自佩利科案判决以来，已有多名女性站出来讲述了她们遭遇“化学制服”的经历。
Already, since the Pelicot verdict, several women have come forward with their stories of chemical submission .
今夏在英国，一名男子承认在长达十年的时间里反复给女友下药并实施强奸，还邀请他人实施同样的行为。在德国，四名男子因给多名女性下药并实施强奸，以及在私人通讯群组中分享录像和逃避惩罚的技巧而被判有罪。“现在我认为没人能再无视什么是‘化学制服’了，”达里安说。
In the U.K. this summer, a man pleaded to repeatedly drugging and raping his girlfriend over the course of a decade and inviting others to do the same. Four men in Germany were convicted of drugging and raping several women and sharing footage and tips in private messaging groups about how to get away with it. "I think now no one can ignore what chemical submission is," Darian said.
今秋，网络上的女性纷纷声援简·多伊，她是纽约州伊萨卡康奈尔大学的一名匿名学生，指控自己在药物和酒精的强烈作用下遭到兄弟会成员轮奸。
This fall, women online have been rallying around Jane Doe, an anonymous student at Cornell University in Ithaca, N.Y., who alleges she was gang raped by fraternity members while heavily under the influence of drugs and alcohol.
当被问及此案时，达里安向简·多伊给予了鼓励，并向所有人发出了行动呼吁。
Asked about the case, Darian offered words of encouragement for Jane Doe and a call to action for everyone else.
“你不必独自背负这份耻辱，你必须坚强，你必须相信自己，并继续发声，”她说。
"You don't have to bear the shame on your shoulder, and you must stay strong, and you must believe in yourself and go on speaking out," she said.
“这不仅仅是女性的问题。它关乎每个人。它关乎整个社会，关乎支持受害者、推动变革的责任。”莱斯利·阿米森制作的卡罗琳·达里安专访
"It's not only, you know, women's issue. It concerns everyone. It is about an entire society, the responsibility to support victims and to make that change." Interview with Caroline Darian produced by Leslie Ammison