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废除兄弟会Abolish Frats

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兄弟会无法被修复。请改做以下事情。简·多伊在康奈尔大学的兄弟会宿舍遭到性侵犯这一事实,不幸的是,并不令人惊讶:这是案件的一个关键事实。希腊生活与大学园区性侵犯率较高有关。研究表明,兄弟会成员实施性侵犯的可能性是其他男生的三倍。姐妹会女性遭受性侵犯的可能性比其他女大学生高出74%。基于这些原因以及其他因素,作为美国大学的本科生,我们领导了一场废除兄弟会和姐妹会的运动。

Frats Can’t Be Fixed. Do This Instead.

我们争取改变的努力失败了。我们的故事展示了这有多么具有挑战性。

The fact that Jane Doe’s assault at Cornell occurred at a fraternity house is, unfortunately, not a surprise: It is a crucial fact of the case. Greek life is associated with higher rates of sexual assault on college campuses. Studies have shown fraternity members are three times as likely to commit sexual assault as other male students. Sorority women are 74 percent more likely to be sexually assaulted than other college women. For all these reasons and more, as undergraduates at American University, we led a movement to abolish fraternities and sororities.

2020年,我们四人因疫情从童年卧室开始了大学生活。在这段人生令人兴奋的新篇章中,我们注意到几个Instagram账号冒了出来,上面有美国大学的学生和校友分享他们令人不安的种族歧视、性虐待和残酷欺凌经历,其中许多发生在希腊生活的社交圈内或周边。美国大学以拥有进步的学生群体而闻名,这些证词令我们许多大一新生感到困扰。

在2024届的许多GroupMe群聊中,讨论经常围绕着我们所读到的事情竟然被允许发生而大学却没有给出充分回应,这有多么荒谬。我们四人因共同的政治观点而成为朋友,这些联系是通过Facebook帖子和在线群聊在数字空间中建立起来的。

Our fight for change didn’t work. Our story shows how challenging it is.

许多我们认识的本科生发誓要远离希腊生活,并认为大学继续允许其存在是不可接受的。阿比最初曾考虑加入一个姐妹会:她曾看到姐妹情深的可爱Instagram照片和统一的服装。但阅读了A.U.校园里希腊生活的证言后,她很快决定放弃。我们都直觉地觉得,如果校园里的一名成员可能受到伤害和贬低,那么同样的事情也可能发生在我们任何一人身上。

In 2020, the four of us started our college experience from our childhood bedrooms, because of the pandemic. Amid this exciting new chapter of our lives, we noticed several Instagram accounts popping up that featured A.U. students and alumni sharing their troubling experiences of racial discrimination, sexual abuse and brutal hazing, many of which occurred in and around social Greek life. A.U. has a reputation for having a progressive student body, and these testimonies troubled many of us in the freshman class. In many of the class of 2024’s GroupMe chats, discussions often revolved around how ridiculous it was that the things we read about were allowed to occur with no adequate response from the university. The four of us became friends because of our shared political perspectives, connections that we built digitally via Facebook posts and online group chats.

当我们终于在2021年抵达校园时,我们看到四处可见兄弟会在操场上设置招募桌。我们看到一些曾在GroupMe上讨论过兄弟会暴力的同班同学,也蜂拥而至,寻求某种面对面社区的影子。我们怀疑,如果象棋俱乐部的成员统计上比一般学生群体更有可能犯下性侵犯罪的可能性高出三倍,那么它永远不会被允许在校园里招募成员。为什么兄弟会会存在这种双重标准?

Many undergraduates we knew swore off Greek life and found it unacceptable that the university continued to allow its existence. Abby had initially considered joining a sorority: She had seen the cute Instagram photos of sisterhood and matching outfits. But after reading the testimonials of Greek life on A.U.’s campus, she quickly decided against it. All of us felt viscerally that if one member of our campus could be harmed and devalued, then the same thing could happen to any of us.

阿比和奥利维亚是室友,她们印制了写着:“你喜欢种族主义吗?你享受厌女症吗?那么,加入希腊生活就是为你准备的!”的传单。但自由张贴这些传单是不被允许的。于是我们尝试成立一个名为“在A.U.废除希腊生活”的俱乐部。如果获得俱乐部资格,我们就可以在操场上设摊位、张贴传单、举办活动并获得资金。我们觉得我们在为一个正义的事业奋斗,相信我们的同校同学和这所自由派的大学会敞开怀抱欢迎我们。

When we finally arrived on campus in 2021, we saw fraternities with recruitment tables on the quad. We watched some of the same classmates who had discussed the violence of fraternities on GroupMe flock to them, in search of some semblance of in-person community. We doubt that the chess club would ever be allowed to recruit on campus if statistically its members were three times as likely to commit sexual assault as the general student body. Why did this double standard exist for fraternities?

我们申请成为俱乐部的请求被拒绝了。只有当我们将使命从“废除希腊生活”改为仅仅“改革希腊生活”时,我们才被允许以正式俱乐部的身份存在。我们拒绝了。

Abby and Olivia were roommates, and they printed fliers that read: “Do you like racism? Do you enjoy misogyny? Well, then joining Greek life is for you!”But posting them freely wasn’t allowed. So we attempted to form a club called “Abolish Greek Life at A.U.”With club status, we would be allowed to table on the quad, put up fliers, host events, and receive funding. We felt that we were addressing a just cause that our fellow students and our liberal university would welcome with open arms.

转向社交媒体,我们在Instagram上发布了统计数据和学生证言。我们看到很多支持我们帖子的评论,内容从关于希腊生活如何保护施暴者的信息图,到针对社交媒体上关于某兄弟会成员涉嫌性侵犯的言论所作出的支持声明。然而,我们也看到很多仇恨——其他学生经常嘲笑我们,或发表仇恨评论。还有人指责我们是在做表演,或夸大了一个大型州立学校的问题,而这并不是A.U.的问题。

Our application to become a club was denied. We would be permitted to exist as a formal club only if we changed our mission from abolishing Greek life to merely reforming it. We refused.

但我们有盟友。我们与学生政府成员合作,并在2022年春天,我们成功将两个公投议题纳入全校范围的选票。为此,我们参加了冗长的学生政府会议,有时占用了我们整个星期六。我们记得被学生政府成员批评,而他们不知道我们就在耳边。我们说服了其他A.U.社团联署我们关于公投的传单,以便我们能够在校园内张贴。

Turning to social media, we posted statistics and student testimonials on Instagram. We saw lots of comments in support of our posts, which ranged from infographics on how Greek life protects abusers to a statement of support in response to comments made on social media about an alleged sexual assault by a member of a fraternity.

我们运动的重要部分是与 fellow 学生交谈,试图让他们加入我们的事业。许多人告诉我们,他们对希腊生活组织的行为感到不适,但他们迫切需要社会基础设施。虽然废除兄弟会和姐妹会是我们的主要目标,但我们意识到为A.U.学生创造替代性社区形式的重要性。

However, we also saw plenty of hate — other students would often mock us, or post hate comments. Others accused us of being performative or exaggerating what was a big state school issue, not an issue at A.U.

当结果统计出来时,46%的投票学生表示他们不支持希腊生活在校园的存在,而41%的学生表示他们支持。更明确的是,73%的学生表示他们希望有希腊生活的替代方案,以帮助在A.U.校园建设社区。

But we had our allies. We organized with members of the student government, and in the spring of 2022, we got two referendum questions on the campuswide ballot. To achieve this, we attended lengthy student government meetings that sometimes took up our entire Saturdays. We recall being criticized by members of the student government, who didn’t know we were within earshot. We persuaded other A.U. clubs to co-sign our fliers about the referendum so that we could post them throughout campus. A large piece of our campaign was talking to our fellow students and trying to get them to join our cause. Many of them told us that they were uncomfortable with the behavior of Greek life organizations but that they were desperate for social infrastructure. Though abolishing fraternities and sororities was our main goal, we realized the importance of creating alternative forms of community for A.U. students.

在公投之后,A.U.学生参与中心的主任告诉校园报纸,大学“不会承认任何旨在取消校园内另一项学生参与机会的社团。”最终,尽管我们付出了所有努力,但什么也没发生。

When the results were tallied, 46 percent of voting students said they did not support the presence of Greek life on campus, compared with 41 percent who said they did. Even more clearly, 73 percent of students said they desired alternatives to Greek life that would help build community on A.U.’s campus.

全国范围内的希腊生活一直有改革的机会,但可怕的事件一次又一次地发生。为什么更多的大学不考虑取消兄弟会?我们认为其中部分原因是金钱。全国范围内,曾是希腊生活成员的大学校友比非希腊生活成员更有可能向母校捐款——一项调查显示,54%的希腊生活成员向母校捐款,而非关联校友的比例仅为10%。这表明大学在财政上有动机忽视希腊生活所延续的性虐待、羞辱和歧视。

Amid the aftermath of the referendums, the director of A.U.’s Center for Student Involvement told the campus newspaper that the university “would not recognize any club whose goal was to abolish another student involvement opportunity on campus.”Ultimately, despite all our efforts, nothing happened.

我们认识到校园内社交网络和支持系统的必要性。但全国各地校园里有大量替代性社区的例子。许多学院和大学——包括莱斯大学、圣母大学、科尔比学院、阿尔弗雷德学院、阿默斯特学院——要么已经废除了他们的希腊系统,要么根本就没有让它们扎根。有些人可能会认为我们天真,但我们仍然坚定地相信,废除而非改革才是唯一的答案。这些其他学校为我们树立了榜样:我们不需要想象全新的东西来想象更好的东西。

Greek life throughout the country has been given opportunities to reform, yet horrific incidents happen time and time again. Why don’t more universities consider abolishing frats? We believe part of it is money. Nationwide, university alumni who were members of Greek life are far likelier than their non-Greek counterparts to donate to their institution — with one survey showing 54 percent of those who went Greek donating to their alma mater, as opposed to the 10 percent of nonaffiliated alumni. This suggests to us that universities have a financial incentive to ignore the sexual abuse, hazing and discrimination that Greek life perpetuates.

帕尔塔夫·埃斯瓦尔在华盛顿从事环境政策工作。贝拉·帕拉卡是一名基于匹兹堡的博物馆专业人士和作家。阿比·沙基斯是一名基于华盛顿的政治研究员。奥利维亚·奥康纳是一名基于马萨诸塞州的作家和教师。

We recognize the need for social networks and support systems on college campuses. But there are ample examples of alternative communities on campuses across the country. Many colleges and universities — including Rice, Notre Dame, Colby, Alfred, Amherst — have either abolished their Greek systems, or never let them take root at all. Some people might find us naïve, but we still believe just as firmly that abolition, not reform, is the only answer. These other schools serve as models: We don’t need to imagine something new to imagine something better.

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Parthav Easwar works in environmental policy in Washington. Bella Paracca is a museum professional and a writer based in Pittsburgh. Abby Sharkis is a political researcher based in Washington. Olivia O’Connor is a writer and a teacher based in Massachusetts.